“Listen,” he said, “I want you to know I’m not going anywhere. I’m not going to take off again.”

I supposed he was trying to reassure me, but instead his words pissed me off. “You’d better not,” I said. “Not after you’ve let Haley care about you again.”

“I won’t.”

I looked out at the water, getting my nerve up for what I was going to say next. “I was surprised when you mentioned Lily,” I said.

“Why? Did you think I could ever forget about her?”

“I frankly wondered.”

“Oh, Anna. Seriously?”

I turned on the bench to face him. “You ran off, Bryan,” I said. “You started a new life. You never talked about her. I mean, you talked to the police and the authorities back when it happened, but all these years, you’ve never talked to me about her.”

“It was such a difficult time.”

“‘Difficult’ doesn’t begin to describe it.”

He took off his sunglasses and rubbed the bridge of his nose. “I have regrets,” he said.

And damn well you should, I thought. “Tell me your regrets.” I wanted an accounting. I wanted to make sure he didn’t miss any.

He looked at me as if deciding whether to take the bait.

“First and foremost, I regret not being a father to Haley,” he said. “There is no excuse for it other than cowardice. I wasn’t a good father to her from the start. I never let myself get close to her. I was afraid of getting close and then having her disappear the way Lily did. I know that was irrational, but it’s how I felt.”

I remembered how little he’d had to do with Haley during her first year. I’d thought it was normal. Babies and mothers were so attached to one another that I figured fathers didn’t quite know how to fit into the picture. I never realized it was fear that kept him from bonding with her.

“When she got sick—” he shook his head “—that was it. I had to escape. Gutless. I know.”

“You’re taking the risk of losing her now,” I said. “How come?”

“I think this is my personal brand of midlife crisis.” He smiled. “Some guys see life passing them by, going too quickly, and they fill the void with a hot car or a hot girlfriend. I saw life passing me by and felt the void, but I knew it wasn’t a car or a woman I needed. I knew what I was missing. My daughter.” He slipped his sunglasses back on. “I was trying to figure out how to gracefully come back into her life when you called. Then I knew it wouldn’t be graceful, but I had to do it. To be here for her. For you, too. Though it scared the shit out of me, Anna.” He looked at me. “It still does. But if anything happened to her and I didn’t make the effort to get to know her, I’d never forgive myself. There was already so much I couldn’t forgive myself for. I earned a medal for bravery in the army, but I was a coward when it came to my own family. I wanted to give that medal back.”

I was softening toward him. I believed him. “I’m glad you’re telling me all this,” I said. “It’s kind of late, but I’m still glad.”

“There’s something else,” he said. “I have a friend here. He and his wife own a car dealership in Maryland. When I told you I had a job interview last week, I was really over there talking to them.”

I remembered his call from the interview. The woman’s laughter in the background. I frowned, waiting, wondering where this was going.

“They had a child who died of leukemia many years ago. I told them about Haley before I came out here and they told me if she ended up needing a transplant, they wanted to sponsor a bone marrow drive for her. So that’s what I was talking to them about. Just in case she ended up needing it. And she does. So—”

“Wow.” I felt guilty for having doubted him. “Wow.”

“As I understand it, the possibility of finding a donor from the drive is slim,” he said, “but the point is, it puts more people into the pool. They told me if you and Haley are willing to go public with, you know, Haley’s story, it helps pull people in. But you don’t have to.”

I’d have to think about that. We—all three of us—had a pretty damn poignant story, given Lily’s disappearance and Haley’s first bout with leukemia. But I wasn’t sure I wanted to put my daughter on display.

“I’ll talk to her about it,” I said. “We can talk to her about it. Either way, thank you for thinking of this. For doing this.”

I watched a group of tourists line up to get on the riverboat. I was still amazed by the fact that Bryan had this whole donor drive up his sleeve. That he’d been thinking ahead.

“You know,” he said now, “the whole Lily thing… It took me a long time to figure it out for myself. I still…it’s still hard for me to talk about her. I know you were angry with me for not going to Wilmington to check on her back then. Believe me, I wish I had, but I couldn’t leave you. I thought Lily was safe, but that I could lose you at any minute. You were hanging between life and death.”

“I know,” I said. “I know what you did seemed to make sense at the time.” I still wished he had tried harder. Called the hospital in Wilmington sooner than he did. Pressed them harder for more information. Something. Yet he couldn’t have known that Lily had vanished. How could anyone have known?

“I felt like it was my fault she disappeared,” he said.

“I made you feel that way.” I had wanted him to apologize to me for everything, but I could suddenly see my own culpability. I’d blamed him because I didn’t know who else to blame. I’d been in a coma at Duke University Hospital when he’d been called back from Somalia and of course I’d been his main concern. Yet when I came out of the coma and we learned that Lily had somehow disappeared from the Wilmington hospital, I was furious with him for not going there to check on her. I froze him out. “We were screwed up, both of us,” I said. “We should have been getting some serious marriage counseling.”

“No kidding.” He smiled. “We should have had a counselor move in with us.” He took a sip of his coffee. “Have you ever…did you ever get any leads on what happened to her?” he asked.

I shook my head. “The investigators thought she died, as you know,” I said. “Maybe a medical mistake someone was trying to cover up, but I’ve never been able to accept that theory.” I didn’t want to accept that theory. “Then there were all sorts of dead ends. They called me one time when Haley was about three. A woman had contacted them from South Carolina to say she thought her cousin’s little girl was actually Lily. She said the cousin just appeared with a baby one day around the same time Lily was taken and this woman thought it was weird. The investigators asked why she’d waited so many years to call and she said she’d been afraid to get her cousin in trouble, but now she thought the cousin was abusing the girl so she was making the call. It turned out the cousin had kidnapped someone’s baby, just not mine. Not ours.” I could still feel the letdown when the investigator called me with the DNA results.

“I really got my hopes up, Bryan,” I said. “After Haley went into remission when she was nearly four and I could finally think about something other than getting her well, she and I went to Wilmington for a week. We just walked the streets, while I looked for a seven-year-old girl who might be Lily. I hung out around the schools. It was a little crazy of me, especially since the hospital she’d been in covered such a huge geographical area. Lily could have been anywhere. I’ve always clung to the hope that someone who desperately wanted a child saw the most beautiful baby in the hospital and took her. At least that way, she would have been wanted and cared for.”

“I never got to see her.” Bryan’s face was slack with sadness.

“I know,” I said. “At least I had her for a few hours.”

“Does Haley know about her?”

“Of course.” He was not used to openness. To hard truths. It had taken him two months to get up the courage to mention Lily. “I told her very early,” I said. “She couldn’t have been more than five or six. Bryan, she’s an unusual girl.”

“I know that,” he said with a smile. “She’s fantastic.”

“Maybe it was because she had to go through all the medical stuff when she was so small, I don’t know, but she’s always been different from other kids her age. She even helps me look for Lily.”

He looked startled. “What do you mean?”

“She knows the sort of work the Missing Children’s Bureau does. She goes through the leads we get, looking for anything that might be related to Lily. She hangs out at the office with me sometimes. She and I have gone back to Wilmington twice, looking for Lily. She and I share that gigantic hole in our hearts. She even has a website she made herself called ‘Sibs of the Missing.’”

“You’re kidding. She made it herself?”

I nodded. “She’s a computer geek, just like her father.”

He leaned his head back, looking up at the sky. “I love her,” he said. “All these years, I sent money and Christmas presents and all that, but I didn’t love her. I didn’t feel anything except guilt for being a shitty father. Now I love her and…I can honestly say I’ve never felt like this before. This kind of emotion. The moment I first saw her in the hospital room, bald and puking—” he looked at me, his smile both confused and tender “—I wanted to take her place,” he said. “Give her my health. Let me be the one sick in that bed.”

“Oh, yeah,” I said. “I know that feeling.”

“I’m so pissed at myself.”

I didn’t want to hear any more regrets. The need to hear them, years in the making, had evaporated. “Let’s put the past behind us,” I said. “You’re here now. Now you’re earning that medal for bravery.”



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Emerson


Wilmington, North Carolina